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Festivals for Travelers, Sites of the Month, Special Feature, Quotes, Opinions, Rants, Praises. |
The Artsy Site Of The Month: Martin Hart's American WideScreen Museum A look back at CinemaScope and Talking Pictures.
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Handy Site Of The Month: Proof Positive: Proofreading tips Includes a link to a file of standard proofreader's chart of markings.
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Web Page Design Site Of The Month: Javascript Text Color Changer Add some attention to a bit of text on your web page.
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Seasonal Site Of The Month: What I'll Be Doing For Memorial Day PARENTAL WARNING: This is a very intense reading. But kids have a right to know what awful things happen in war, and they need to know that it isn't a film stunt or special effect. Please read this with them.
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Just Fun Site Of The Month: Odd Man Out Puzzle: Which of the four does not belong in the group?
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Downright Serious Site Of The Month: Press Release: Opportunists Burglarize Freedom Trains They left behind a book opened to pages about Harry Truman: Such well-read crooks!
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Historical Site Of The Month: The Duct Tape Guys. Hints, how NASA has used duct tape, duct tape in the movies, and more.
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For May Travelers |
May 1-13, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Whether or not anyone ever finds the treasure of Jean Lafitte,
this festival celebrates the time of pirates and buccaneers, and
includes a lighted boat parade, choirs and concerts, a costume
contest, arm wrestling tournament, bed races, swim competition,
art displays, and an antique and collectibles show.![]()
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May 3-6, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Concerts, art market, bicycle stunt show, aqua golf,
jet ski show, children's area, music and more. Please,
no dogs (except service dogs.)![]()
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May 4-5, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Heritage room, church tours, dancing demonstrations,
live music, silent auction, vendors and plenty of
Lebanese foods. No admission is charged.![]()
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May 4-5, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Parade, arts and crafts, street dance, food, children's
events, entertainment. ![]()
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May 4-5, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Recipe contest, with visitors getting to taste samples of
the goodies. Goosefoot Acres sponsors the event.![]()
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May 4-5, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Celebrates the city's incorporation with a high school
reunion, classic car show, crafts, music and dance,
a community and business fair, 5k run, motorcycle cruise-in,
food.![]()
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May 4-6, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Artisans and craftspeople, art and quilt exhibits, local
school talent, games for kids, concerts, fireworks, food.![]()
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May 4-6, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Hot-air balloon rides, parade, Dover Symphony pops concert,
Blues Grass Festival, maypole dancing, Colonial craft
demonstrations, kiddie rides, garden tours (fee), food court
and craft faire, pet parade, Punch and Judy puppet show,
walking tours of historic places, free admission to local
museums.![]()
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May 4-6, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Softball tournament, golf classic, Tour de Toad bike event,
entertainment by the Clark Family, plus Peter Mayer Group,
Eddie Money several and choirs. There is also a rock-climbing wall,
arts and crafts, pet show and pony rides, and parade.![]()
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May 4-6, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Antique and classic car show, airport fly-in, rodeo,
barbecue, chili cook-off, arts and crafts, Kid Zone.![]()
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May 4-12, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Storytelling, performances by the Charleston Civic Orchestra,
theatre, guitar concert, reggae party, A Mellow Taste Of
North Charleston, gospel concert, other events.![]()
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May 5-6, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
This festival celebrates ramp, which is related to garlic.
Enjoy cornbread, barbecue, and bluegrass music.![]()
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May 5-6, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
This year the featured country is Sweden. You can shop
for Scandinavian goods, enjoy arts and crafts, music and
dance, and visit the Sweden Room, where there are special
displays and also activities for children.![]()
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May 5-6, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Tour orchards that are full of blossoms, enjoy arts and
crafts agricultural exhibits and entertainment.![]()
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May 6-8, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Period games, music and food, plus a juried craft fair in which
every artist/merchant works within an 18th Century time period.![]()
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May 5-6, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Entertainment, craft show, games, rock climb and food
(including free sliced tomatoes).![]()
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May 5-12, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Horseshow, 5k and 10k run, pet parade, carnival, car
show, fireworks, strawberry recipe contest, gospel
concert (ticket required).![]()
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May 6-8, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Appearances by popular Hispanic entertainers add to the
fun of this festival, which features a children's area,
corporate and cultural booths, music, costumed performers,
and lots of traditional Mexican foods. Over 140,000 are
expected to attend this year. ![]()
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May 10-12, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Music from "Orpheus", Greek dancers, arts and
crafts, raffles, plenty of Greek foods.![]()
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May 11-12, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Chicken Cook-off, chicken races, music, games,
plenty of food, crowing contest.![]()
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May 11-13, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Teams compete in sauces and barbecued foods, plus
there is a hole-in-one golf competition, and there are arts and crafts
vendors, a pageant, a keg toss and more.![]()
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May 12-13, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Literary competitions, arts and crafts, 10k run, music.![]()
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May 12-13, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Hundred of orchid blooms will be on view, plus you can learn
about corsage making, listen to lectures on growing orchids.
There is also a plant sale. Festival is free with museum admission.![]()
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May 17-20, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Carnival, garden show and plant sale, boat show, auto show,
vendors, 10-mile run, 5k run.![]()
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May 17-20, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
There is admission to this event, but it is one price for
almost all activities, including displays, petting zoo,
music, martial arts demonstrations, kids' games, fireworks,
animal judging and more.![]()
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May 18-19, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Performers scheduled at this writing include Creedence
Clearwater Revisited, Sister Sledge, Kenny Loggins and Vince Gill.![]() PERSONAL NOTE: Gadsden is a great area to visit, with plenty of recreational spots for camping and water activities. The area is rich with historical spots. When I was there last November I spent some time in nearby Centre (take 411 from Gadsden into Cherokee County) at the Cherokee County Historical Museum, and had a great time wandering throughout the place.
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May 18-20, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Arts and crafts show, barbecue, museum displays, raffle, rhododendron
flower show, car show, floral parade, 5k and 10k runs, bake sale.![]()
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May 18-19, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
10k run, 5k run, bicycle tours, entertainment, children's
events, arts and crafts, food.![]()
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May 18-20, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Historic home tours, arts and crafts, entertainment, food.![]()
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May 18-20, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Pancake breakfast, royal court, smorgasbord, art and crafts,
entertainment.![]()
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May 18-20, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Parade, barbecue, events for kids.![]()
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May 19-20, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Car show, ice cream crank-off, Dummy Steer Head roping contest,
run for the roses, quilt show, baby crawling contest, turtle race,
cow milking contest, Belgian waffle breakfast, arts and crafts.
Although the event is listed as two days, at this writing the only
Sunday event seems to be a trail ride.![]()
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May 19-20, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
5k fun run, games, Hershey's visitor center, kids area,
classic car show, arts and crafts, entertainment and food,
especially treats made with chocolate.![]()
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May 19-20, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
A Renaissance festival with artisans, entertainment and food.![]()
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May 19-20, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Tours of the penitentiary, historic demonstrations, games and
food from the early 1800's, juried arts and crafts show.![]()
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May 19-20, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Marilyn Monroe was the first Artichoke Festival queen back
in 1948. Marilyn is gone, but you can still celebrate the joys
of artichokes by having them steamed, grilled or sauced, plus
you can enjoy a classic car show, PAL run, arts and crafts,
and can listen to music by Mumbo Gumbo and Red Beans & Rice.![]()
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May 19-20, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Farmers Market, carnival, entertainment, forklift rodeo,
petting zoo, pie eating contest, antique show, classic car
show, fun run, food alley.![]()
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May 19-20, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Mass choir, brass quintet, Kid's Korner, carriage rides,
historic tours, blacksmithing demonstrations, broom
making demonstrations, arts and crafts, food.![]()
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May 19-20, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Enjoy tunes from Sha Na Na and former Temptations member
Richard Street (and others) as you browse over 300 arts and
crafts booths, a strawberry shortcake eating contest, strawberry
tart toss, puppets and other entertainment for children. You can
also buy flats of farm-fresh berries.![]()
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May 23-27, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Band contests, arts and crafts, berry auctions,
strawberry shortcake.![]()
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May 23-27, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Over 50,000 people now come to see mule show classes,
mules used for steer roping and penning, and mule packing
competitions. Plus there is an opening night supper with
music by Sons of the San Joaquin, a country and western
dance, cowboy church and more.![]()
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May 24-27, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Blooming irises are the backdrop for this event, with
entertainment (including concerts), tennis tournament, flower
show, picnics, garden parties, diaper derby, arts and crafts, a
parade and a kids' area.![]()
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May 24-27, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
A "Low-country" event, with old African games,
quilts, stories, arts and crafts, food and entertainment.![]()
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May 24-27, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
I confess that the draw of this one evades me, but you can
enter the crawfish eating contests or even a crawfish calling
contest. There are also storytellers, clowns and other
entertainment for kids, and lots of good music.![]()
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May 25-26, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Hot air balloon race, arts and crafts, tennis tournament, golf
tournament, children's activities, country music artists.![]()
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May 25-26, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Music, food, crafts and commercial booths, car and motorcycle
show, gospel music, bluegrass music.![]()
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May 25-27, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Storytelling, clowns, fireworks, art, interactive
displays, and lots of music, including performances from
Big Jack Johnson, Celtic Knotwork, Crow Johnson, Don McLean,
Tim Moritz, Better Than Ezra, Los Lobos and many more.![]()
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May 25-27, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Car show, street dance, fireworks, parade, singing, food,
bus tours of the mine site where fossils have been found. There
will also be lectures and an auction.![]()
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May 25-27, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Cityfest run, Artfest, entertainment (including scheduled artists
Travis Tritt, Peabo Bryson, and Neville Brothers).![]()
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May 25-28, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Dances, parade, bazaar, music, art, food. ![]()
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May 25 - June 3, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Arts and crafts, children's activities, antique
car show, concessions, seniors' day, tennis tournament,
land yacht race, strongman competition, and the music
of Marshall Tucker.![]()
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May 25 - June 2, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
This is a fund-raising event for the volunteer fire department,
and includes a midway and carnival, arts and crafts vendors,
entertainment and food.![]()
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May 25-27, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
This one is practically in (and some is literally over) my back yard,
and the helicopters from the air show rattle the windows during their
wonderful stunts. There is a pyrotechnic display one or both evenings
(the exact stunts depend on whether or not our "marine layer" moves in
to affect visibility). And there are about 500 aircraft on display, some
of which are one-of-a-kind from earlier times. There is also a spaghetti
dinner and early morning hot-air balloon rise. Food and other concessions
are available. Admission is charged for a front-row seat, but there are places
to see quite a bit of the action without going on the grounds at all.![]()
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May 26-27, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
I have no further details at present.![]()
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May 26-27, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Arts and crafts, freedom display in honor of Memorial Day
weekend, commercial marketplace, food and beverage vendors,
information from mushroom growers, Mardi Gras-style parade,
entertainment.![]()
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May 26-27, 2001![]() ![]() ![]() |
Workshops on weaving, spinning and Japanese braiding will
be held, and there are also sheep dog trials, vendors, and
fiber and fleece competitions.![]()
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It's always best to call ahead to verify festival information. |
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Broken Vases, Broken Hearts
One of the most important things you ever learned
as a child is that you are not the center of the world. This lesson probably got dropped
on you after a life of several months' worth of being cuddled and played with and told what
a beautiful creature you are by every adult in sight. (Slightly older siblings are apt to
adopt a bit more cynical approach, often asking how long the new visitor will be staying). It's all pretty glorious, with everyone feeding you and bathing you and
encouraging you to show everyone "Where is your nose?" or "Where is your belly button?"
You touch the named body part and everyone laughs and squeals with delight to let you know you are a most
wonderful, talented being. And when you eventually pull your magnificent self to a standing position and
take those first steps, you are applauded and cheered. You are the undisputed darling of the universe. Until that day you reach for Mama's favorite vase on the table and hear the most horrible
sound you have ever known. "No!" You turn your head to see someone who looks a little like Mama,
but who is looking at you with strangely darkened eyes from beneath heavy brows. Fairly undaunted, you try again.
The dirty word flies out of Mama's mouth again, and this time she rises from her chair with much the same
determined stealth you've seen the cat use on some tiny cornered bird in the back yard. Mama stops and looks
straight into your eyes. "That's Mama's. That's mine. You don't touch." What on earth could she possible mean? The entire world revolves around your very presence,
and now suddenly something is forbidden to your experience? This is madness. Surely Mama is joking, playing
a little game here like the one where she pretends you are lost and then lifts the blanket off your head
and acts surprised that you are there. So you grin at her and move once more to take that which
is, of course, rightfully yours, and is easily within your reach. A giant hand stops you. This is not the gentle Mama who holds you close to her bosom and
rocks you and sings to you when you have colic. This is some alien monster that has seized your wrist in a
pincer-grip, and is preventing you from having what you want. It's all over, Kid. This is a day of reckoning, of coming to a threshold and teetering on
the edge of something you never even knew existed. You can't go back now. Your mind and body go into overtime. You become a heat-seeking missile
whose every target is a new place in which to test your limits. Nothing is safe. You climb, you grab, you pull,
you take. And you are confronted at every turn with a relentless Mama who has now made it her mission to force
upon you the audacious idea that everything no longer belongs to you. Most of us have no conscious memory of these things, and yet by the time we are old enough to make big decisions
we are hopefully able to base our choices on the early leading of a wise childhood caregiver. Some folks never
do seem to learn the lesson very well though, and they are often the ones who vandalize property and even
presume to take someone else's life. But most of us continue to test and learn about boundaries throughout life. We negotiate contracts, we share
tasks with co-workers and committee members, we give gifts to special people and we even come to love others
with a vulnerability that opens us up to having our heart tromped on, often again and again. And that's the irony. Somehow we learn to open ourselves to love and to freely give of ourselves
from those early lessons of boundaries that someone taught us with "That's mine. You don't touch." It's
not easy for Mama to deny you your wish. It would be much easier for her to let you do whatever you want. But if
she doesn't teach you that you may not take her vase and break it, someday you will take someone's heart and
break it with no more thought than you had in that first selfish moment when you wanted that which was not yours
to take. That's all the Golden Rule is, when you really think about it. "Do unto others as you would
have them do unto you." It isn't "Do unto others until you get tired of them treating you like crap.
Then go for the jerk's juggler vein." The Golden Rule operates without condition, without contingencies.
It's risky behavior, because you might give of yourself with the best intentions your heart has, and might end
up hurt in return or rejected. It's probably the toughest lesson we will ever learn, and yet it's one of the
few lessons we can take with us beyond this life. When Jesus spoke of the Golden Rule in the sermon on the mount
He was reinforcing what Mamas everywhere have been trying to do for centuries. And He was using a lesson Mamas
use to let us know that God loves us enough to give to us with no demands in return. And we all know that
Jesus practiced what He preached. No one has ever done it better. Every now and then we hear someone make a remark about "do-gooders". The phrase
is usually uttered with sarcasm or ridicule. Whenever I hear someone do that I try to realize that they may
not have had a Mama who could be there for them to teach them about boundaries and how grabbing vases and
breaking them leads to bigger pirating. It's much harder to begin to learn the Golden Rule at 10 or 15 or 30
years of age. Wise Mamas begin early, when they can back up the lesson with an iron hand. As we mature
and Mamas make their own painful choice to back off and let us make our own mistakes, we already have a solid
basis on which to choose to take the high road in our dealings with others. Now, maybe your Mama was a Dad or a Grandma or a Big Brother or Big Sister, or someone else
who loved you enough to teach you that an understanding of boundaries early in life would lead to your personal
success and inner peace further down the line. My wise friend (a very private person so I won't use her name here, but J, you know who you are)
also reminded me that we have all (men and women) been Mamas to someone or something in this life. A friend sits
and cries with one who is grieving. Someone gets out of his car on a busy road and risks his life to help a
stranded animal. Someone cleans house for a housebound senior and listens to stories of the good old days.
A teacher inspires a student to imagine even though the system supports only standardized answers. Someone gives
up her own routine of life in order to be there for a dying parent. We can't really count our money, our career, or our material possessions as gain when we end
this life. We didn't get it all ourselves anyway. We have what we have and we are what we are because of all
the Mamas who have touched us in life and taught us what it means to love. |
Happy Mother's Day to all the Mamas out there. |
Once upon a time there was a man with a gentle voice and quiet charm.
He made several movies and worked in a TV show playing a character who
rode a motorcycle from town to town, touching lives, and singing a little here and there.
Then some of us didn't see much of him for awhile. We wondered if he would ever come to sing for us again.
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Michael Parks is not only singing, but he recorded 17 songs for us to enjoy.
If you haven't closed your eyes and dared to dream for a long while, take heart. These are songs to dream by.
And you'll believe he sings just for you.
Take a trip to Listen Recordings |
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We're pleased to host the work of artisan
Joan Garnand
on our little patch of light on the web.
Joan's creations are finally finding their way
out of her Tennessee community and into the
hearts of admirers everywhere. Check out Joan's zucchini/squash casserole recipe. This busy lady also began her TV stint this past spring, and is sharing her cake decorating and candy-making skills on a local Chattanooga station. She is spending this spring doing face painting and hand-painted stationery at Tennessee festivals.
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I love to hear about companies with a heart. This one has a heart and also has tasty
products like Mo' Beta and Mango Tango. It's Odwalla.
They support projects such as the Earth College in Costa Rica and Second Harvest Food Bank.
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Horses are beautiful animals, but our poor stewardship of Earth has often caused the
wild variety great suffering. For more about wild horses and burros and ways you
can help them, take a look at
KBR's World of Wild Horses and Burros.
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Like hot, spicy foods? Take a look at PepperFool.com, with recipes, restaurant reviews and links to sources for chiles and hot sauces. |
If you'd like to go rafting to enjoy the scenery and not to be tossed about like a rag doll, Class I Rafting has the information to help you get started.
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Too busy to attend classes on a campus? eClass.mtech.edu has online courses in everything from General Chemistry to Abnormal Psychology.
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Here's a nifty little toy. With the software called Dance you can store and retrieve patterns for dance steps (samba, quickstep, disco-fox and more).
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